L\u2019une des choses les plus irri\u00adtantes \u00e0 pro\u00adpos du refrain rebat\u00adtu sur les \u00ab mariages entre conjoints de m\u00eame sexe \u00bb est que je connais peu \u2013 sinon aucun \u2013 queer qui con\u00e7oive son d\u00e9sir comme ayant la carac\u00adt\u00e9\u00adris\u00adtique prin\u00adci\u00adpale d\u2019\u00eatre des\u00adti\u00adn\u00e9 au \u00ab m\u00eame sexe \u00bb. C\u2019est vrai que plu\u00adsieurs textes f\u00e9mi\u00adnistes des ann\u00e9es soixante-dix concer\u00adnaient la pos\u00adsi\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adt\u00e9 d\u2019\u00eatre allu\u00adm\u00e9e, et m\u00eame poli\u00adti\u00adque\u00adment trans\u00adfor\u00adm\u00e9e, par la ren\u00adcontre du m\u00eame. Cette ren\u00adcontre \u00e9tait, est, peut \u00eatre impor\u00adtante, car elle per\u00admet de voir refl\u00e9\u00adt\u00e9 ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9ni\u00adgr\u00e9, de tro\u00adquer l\u2019ali\u00e9nation ou la haine inter\u00adna\u00adli\u00ads\u00e9e pour le d\u00e9sir et l\u2019attention. Se d\u00e9vouer \u00e0 la chatte d\u2019une autre peut \u00eatre une fa\u00e7on de se d\u00e9vouer \u00e0 sa propre chatte. Mais quelles que soient les res\u00adsem\u00adblances que j\u2019ai pu remar\u00adquer dans mes rela\u00adtions avec des femmes, ce n\u2019\u00e9tait pas une res\u00adsem\u00adblance avec la Femme, et cer\u00adtai\u00adne\u00adment pas une res\u00adsem\u00adblance des mor\u00adceaux. C\u2019\u00e9tait plu\u00adt\u00f4t le par\u00adtage d\u2019une com\u00adpr\u00e9\u00adhen\u00adsion acca\u00adblante de ce que signi\u00adfie vivre dans une soci\u00e9\u00adt\u00e9 patriarcale.<\/p>\n
One of the most annoying things about hea\u00adring the refrain \u201csame-sex mar\u00adriage\u201d over and over again is that I don\u2019t know many\u2014if any\u2014queers who think of their desire\u2019s main fea\u00adture as being \u201csame-sex.\u201d It\u2019s true that a lot of les\u00adbian sex wri\u00adting from the \u201970s was about being tur\u00adned on, and even poli\u00adti\u00adcal\u00adly trans\u00adfor\u00admed, by an encoun\u00adter with same\u00adness. This encoun\u00adter was, is, can be, impor\u00adtant, as it has to do with seeing reflec\u00adted that which has been revi\u00adled, with exchan\u00adging alie\u00adna\u00adtion or inter\u00adna\u00adli\u00adzed revul\u00adsion for desire and care. To devote your\u00adself to someone else\u2019s pus\u00adsy can be a means of devo\u00adting your\u00adself to your own. But wha\u00adte\u00adver same\u00adness I\u2019ve noted in my rela\u00adtion\u00adships with women is not the same\u00adness of Woman, and cer\u00adtain\u00adly not the same\u00adness of parts. Rather, it is the sha\u00adred, cru\u00adshing unders\u00adtan\u00adding of what it means to live in a patriarchy.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
L\u2019une des choses les plus irri\u00adtantes \u00e0 pro\u00adpos du refrain rebat\u00adtu sur les \u00ab mariages entre conjoints de m\u00eame sexe \u00bb est que je connais peu \u2013 sinon aucun \u2013 queer qui con\u00e7oive son d\u00e9sir comme ayant la carac\u00adt\u00e9\u00adris\u00adtique prin\u00adci\u00adpale d\u2019\u00eatre des\u00adti\u00adn\u00e9 au \u00ab m\u00eame sexe \u00bb. C\u2019est vrai que plu\u00adsieurs textes f\u00e9mi\u00adnistes des ann\u00e9es soixante-dix concer\u00adnaient la possibilit\u00e9 [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"quote","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[468,53,2919],"class_list":["post-20255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-quote","hentry","category-non-classe","tag-homosexualite","tag-identite","tag-lesbienne","post_format-post-format-quote"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=20255"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20255\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21845,"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20255\/revisions\/21845"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=20255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=20255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/testanonpertinente.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=20255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}